In refrence to homosexuality, How can one “Hate the sin, but love the sinner”?

In refrence to homosexuality, How can one “Hate the sin, but love the sinner”?
How can this exactly be done? One cannot hate a bird for flying or prevent a fish from swimming.

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Answer by Irini
everyone sins
so are you going to hate someone you love?
being gay is no different from saying a cuss word

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15 Responses to “In refrence to homosexuality, How can one “Hate the sin, but love the sinner”?”

  • flinginfeces says:

    Because homosexuality IS a choice.

  • Esther says:

    Your analogy is incorrect. The bible calls homosexuality a sin. The bible does not say a bird flying or a fish swimming is sinful.

    Now…if a person rejects the bible as being the word of God; that’s up to them.

  • robert43041 says:

    You may like the person for his or her achievement and not necessarily agree with her sexual orientation.

  • trueisrael says:

    Being gay breaks the first commandment which is “Be fruitful and multiply”. If God made Adam and Steve then none of us would be here. Read the book and you will learn how God operates.

    Jude 3-7
    3Beloved, when I gave all diligence to write unto you of the common salvation, it was needful for me to write unto you, and exhort you that ye should earnestly contend for the faith which was once delivered unto the saints.
    4For there are certain men crept in unawares, who were before of old ordained to this condemnation, ungodly men, turning the grace of our God into lasciviousness, and denying the only Lord God, and our Lord Jesus Christ.
    5I will therefore put you in remembrance, though ye once knew this, how that the Lord, having saved the people out of the land of Egypt, afterward destroyed them that believed not.
    6And the angels which kept not their first estate, but left their own habitation, he hath reserved in everlasting chains under darkness unto the judgment of the great day.
    7Even as Sodom and Gomorrha, and the cities about them in like manner, giving themselves over to fornication, and going after strange flesh, are set forth for an example, suffering the vengeance of eternal fire.
    Leviticus 24:22
    22Ye shall have one manner of law, as well for the stranger, as for one of your own country: for I am the LORD your God.
    Leviticus 18:22-26
    22Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination.
    23Neither shalt thou lie with any beast to defile thyself therewith: neither shall any woman stand before a beast to lie down thereto: it is confusion.
    24Defile not ye yourselves in any of these things: for in all these the nations are defiled which I cast out before you:
    25And the land is defiled: therefore I do visit the iniquity thereof upon it, and the land itself vomiteth out her inhabitants.
    26Ye shall therefore keep my statutes and my judgments, and shall not commit any of these abominations; neither any of your own nation, nor any stranger that sojourneth among you:
    1 Corinthians 6:9-11
    9Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,
    10Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.
    11And such were some of you: but ye are washed, but ye are sanctified, but ye are justified in the name of the Lord Jesus, and by the Spirit of our God.
    James 1:14-16
    14But every man is tempted, when he is drawn away of his own lust, and enticed.
    15Then when lust hath conceived, it bringeth forth sin: and sin, when it is finished, bringeth forth death.
    16Do not err, my beloved brethren.
    Deuteronomy 23:14, 17-18
    14For the LORD thy God walketh in the midst of thy camp, to deliver thee, and to give up thine enemies before thee; therefore shall thy camp be holy: that he see no unclean thing in thee, and turn away from thee.
    17There shall be no whore of the daughters of Israel, nor a sodomite of the sons of Israel.
    18Thou shalt not bring the hire of a whore, or the price of a dog, into the house of the LORD thy God for any vow: for even both these are abomination unto the LORD thy God.
    Malachi 3:5-6
    5And I will come near to you to judgment; and I will be a swift witness against the sorcerers, and against the adulterers, and against false swearers, and against those that oppress the hireling in his wages, the widow, and the fatherless, and that turn aside the stranger from his right, and fear not me, saith the LORD of hosts.
    6For I am the LORD, I change not; therefore ye sons of Jacob are not consumed.
    Hebrews 13:8
    8Jesus Christ the same yesterday, and today, and for ever.
    Romans 1:18-32
    18For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who hold the truth in unrighteousness;
    19Because that which may be known of God is manifest in them; for God hath shewed it unto them.
    20For the invisible things of him from the creation of the world are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even his eternal power and Godhead; so that they are without excuse:
    21Because that, when they knew God, they glorified him not as God, neither were thankful; but became vain in their imaginations, and their foolish heart was darkened.
    22Professing themselves to be wise, they became fools,
    23And changed the glory of the uncorruptible God into an image made like to corruptible man, and to birds, and fourfooted beasts, and creeping things.
    24Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves:
    25Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen.
    26For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
    27And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.
    28And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;
    29Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers,
    30Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents,
    31Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful:
    32Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them.
    1 Timothy 1:9-10
    9Knowing this, that the law is not made for a righteous man, but for the lawless and disobedient, for the ungodly and for sinners, for unholy and profane, for murderers of fathers and murderers of mothers, for manslayers,
    10For whoremongers, for them that defile themselves with mankind, for menstealers, for liars, for perjured persons, and if there be any other thing that is contrary to sound doctrine;
    2 Peter 2:4-10
    4For if God spared not the angels that sinned, but cast them down to hell, and delivered them into chains of darkness, to be reserved unto judgment;
    5And spared not the old world, but saved Noah the eighth person, a preacher of righteousness, bringing in the flood upon the world of the ungodly;
    6And turning the cities of Sodom and Gomorrha into ashes condemned them with an overthrow, making them an ensample unto those that after should live ungodly;
    7And delivered just Lot, vexed with the filthy conversation of the wicked:
    8(For that righteous man dwelling among them, in seeing and hearing, vexed his righteous soul from day to day with their unlawful deeds;)
    9The Lord knoweth how to deliver the godly out of temptations, and to reserve the unjust unto the day of judgment to be punished:
    10But chiefly them that walk after the flesh in the lust of uncleanness, and despise government. Presumptuous are they, selfwilled, they are not afraid to speak evil of dignities.
    Revelation 22:7-21
    7Behold, I come quickly: blessed is he that keepeth the sayings of the prophecy of this book.
    8And I John saw these things, and heard them. And when I had heard and seen, I fell down to worship before the feet of the angel which shewed me these things.
    9Then saith he unto me, See thou do it not: for I am thy fellowservant, and of thy brethren the prophets, and of them which keep the sayings of this book: worship God.
    10And he saith unto me, Seal not the sayings of the prophecy of this book: for the time is at hand.
    11He that is unjust, let him be unjust still: and he which is filthy, let him be filthy still: and he that is righteous, let him be righteous still: and he that is holy, let him be holy still.
    12And, behold, I come quickly; and my reward is with me, to give every man according as his work shall be.
    13I am Alpha and Omega, the beginning and the end, the first and the last.
    14Blessed are they that do his commandments, that they may have right to the tree of life, and may enter in through the gates into the city.
    15For without are dogs, and sorcerers, and whoremongers, and murderers, and idolaters, and whosoever loveth and maketh a lie.
    16I Jesus have sent mine angel to testify unto you these things in the churches. I am the root and the offspring of David, and the bright and morning star.
    17And the Spirit and the bride say, Come. And let him that heareth say, Come. And let him that is athirst come. And whosoever will, let him take the water of life freely.
    18For I testify unto every man that heareth the words of the prophecy of this book, If any man shall add unto these things, God shall add unto him the plagues that are written in this book:
    19And if any man shall take away from the words of the book of this prophecy, God shall take away his part out of the book of life, and out of the holy city, and from the things which are written in this book.
    20He which testifieth these things saith, Surely I come quickly. Amen. Even so, come, Lord Jesus.
    21The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you all. Amen.

  • Pete says:

    this song explains it

    Ted Haggard Had This Coming

  • Ms. Lady says:

    my brother used to be addicted to drugs. even though i hated what he did..i still deeply loved him.

  • Sentinel says:

    I think that you should get the word hate out of the way first, hate is too suggestive in my opinion and it tends to hot wire the Christian too come on far too strong.
    I suggest that friendly disagreement with the act of homosexuality and solid reasons why it offends God will still get the message across and if done tactfully should not be as offensive to the other Person.
    We should never forget that every single person has an in-built personal dignity and that God loves them in spite of sin.
    The ranting of some hardcore Christians does nothing to help homosexuals understand their need for grace but instead leave them even more alienated and angry at the God Who loves them.

  • j4Rose says:

    The Christians who say that are not really Christians at all – they’re just self-righteous hypocrites.

    Being gay is a choice? It’s amazing how so many non-gay people seem to know what gay people think and feel – I wish I could read minds too. Maybe they were given that gift by their wise and compassionate God.

  • Kiss My Banana! says:

    Because you can love someone no matter what their choices are in life.

  • Angel says:

    You must not have children. When a child does something wrong it is easy to not like the sin, but still love the child. The difference is you believe that homosexuality is not a sin. Christianity says it is. However, Christianity also says fornication, lying, gluttony, pride, lust, are sins also. Eventually, we all fall under some sin or another. That is why we need a Savior, because no one is perfect to stand before God. Jesus made a way for all people to reach God. If you are a gay person Christ came for you too and loves you too. Don’t let anything keep you from the love of God. You accept Christ just as you are regardless of your sin. He does the changes in you that He wants. God Bless you.

  • Chuck says:

    its because sin is from satan its not the really persons fault like someone else said everyone sins and no sin is worse than another people look at sins diferently but God looks at a lie as just a bad as murder so we’re to try and help those to turn from there sins so really everybody ought to be there help everybody else but this world is far from that

  • MrgLvWsdm says:

    That is St Augustine, not the Bible. Sin is detestable, it is slavery. It leads to eternal damnation. The same reason Jesus took pity on us is why we are to take pity (=love) the sinner — because of the terrible things that can happen to them. You try to help. You should.

  • Bruce says:

    Birds are designed for flying. Fish are designed for swimming. Humans are designed, among other goals, for sexual reproduction, which requires a man and a woman.

    Since children are “reproduced,” they need a mother and father, in love with each other and committed to build a home, for better or for worse.

    We are happiest, and God is most pleased, when we act in concert with our designer to become the creature he designed, a creature made in the image of God.

    God hates any sin that destroys his people, and sexual sins infect the body with a variety of deadly sexually transmitted diseases. They also twist the mind by turning away from God, as detailed by St. Paul in Romans I.

    Nonetheless, God loves his creatures and yearns for their happiness, not only in the few decades on earth, but for untold eons in eternity.


  • Chelsea says:

    Christians do not hate anyone. That is why they do not hate the sinner. They may hate the sin, like you said. But hating someone is a very un-Christian like thing.

  • Moxie! says:

    These nitwits still think homosexuality is a choice. There is no reasoning with them. “Hate the sin, love the sinner” is just another ridiculous piece of “logic” created by religious folk who don’t have 2 brain cells to rub together.

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