A friend sent out wedding invites a couple months ago…well most of her guests declined the invite. She is getting married at the end of December in Michigan. Most of her invites were to people living in Texas, New Mexico & Arizona…so they’d have to travel quite a distance not to mention what the road conditions could be like up North. Well she’s has been calling and asking “are you sure you can’t come” I’ve told her nicely several times I just can’t afford it this time of year, plus I cannot take additional time off from work…since we recieve a week off for Christmas paid…(Dec 21-27, & if you don’t work the week after you loose your holiday pay. I can’t afford that) Plus I told her that the weather is already pretty yucky up there…what if I get caught in a blizard. If it were closer or at any other time of the year I’d be happy to go. She’s been calling lots of us…how do I tell her nicely without hurting her feelings?
Answer by sarah71397
just b straight with her
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