A question from a reader: Is it a silly idea for my husband and I to renew our vows only after five years of marriage? When I tell some family members about this, they aren’t excited about the idea, so am I missing something here? We got married in a courthouse before I left for the Navy; actually, we weren’t planning to get married that day, but the Navy wanted time to finalize some paperwork before I left, so we were told to get married that day. It was special, but I want something more meaningful–maybe renew our vows in a church because we didn’t the first time around? We aren’t very religious, but it would be nice to make it official in the house of God. I don’t know if I want to invite family members or make anything lavish about it. I just want a nice, simple ceremony, but maybe with a professional photographer because we only have four photographs from our courthouse wedding. Any advice?