What do you think of a man who says “we need to renew our vows” yet they aren’t married?
My best friend has been dating this guy for several years and they aren’t married but they’ve had their ups and downs and he claims that he has not married her because “she” is not ready. Even when she says she is, he says she’s not because she hasn’t learned to trust him enough. Anyway, today she called me for advice because she says he told her they need to renew their vows. WTF? I think he’s brainwashing her into making her feel that they are married when they are not. His explanation was that they’ve been through a lot so now they need a fresh start. After several years of dating, could you really have a”fresh start” or is this his way of setting back a wedding even more? What do you guys think? I don’t want to make her feel bad, but I might also be wrong. From what she says, he’s never cheated on her but they’ve argued a lot and he’s trying to control his temper.
Answer by Principessa
they need a break. this guy is the one who is not ready to get married. he sounds like hes trying tof any excuse he can to delay the marriage and prolong the courtship. this isn’t exactly wrong. but something tells him not to ger married just yet. something is holding him back. they need to take a break and see if they still feel the same in a few moths. with a guy like this chances are he will and she wont.
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